Alina Babkina Biography
Photo Society: The Personal Archive of the Nikolai Babkin family on the Day of Love, Family and Fidelity Priest Nikolai Babkin and his wife Mother Alina told “Evening Moscow” how to live together, despite life circumstances. The family of Nikolai Babkin, today - the priest of the temple in the name of St. Nicholas of Mirliki in Otradny, was formed when he was a student of the theological seminary, and his wife was a student of the pedagogical college.
And, despite his young age, Nikolai was then 20 years old, and his chosen one 19, they managed to create a strong family.
From social networks - to the temple and down the aisle - Nikolai, you are conducting accounts in social networks. Does this interfere in the ministry? But the ultimate goal is that a person nevertheless comes to the temple from the virtual space. Photo: The personal archive of the Nikolai Babkin family - it will sound strange, but also in social networks. We corresponded for a long time, and after some time she came to me on a date.
Love became a bridge connecting internal searches and overcoming all fears. But deep down she understood that she had met her fate. And to me, as a decisive person, there was the same satellite. Choosing your own path is Nikolai, in the modern world it is rarely possible to meet couples that have created and at the same time retained the family. At 20, many, without hesitation, see not a partner in their wife, but a parent who will forgive and solve all problems.
And then naturally the crisis of 30 years puts everything in its place. If one of the spouses does not pass, the relationship gives a crack. Everything else needs time and mutual efforts, so that marriage unity is not just in words. Mother is half the priest. She suffers me more than 10 years, having managed to increase our happiness in four peanuts during this time. Fabulous expectations - how did you manage to maintain and strengthen the relationship?
Without hints and expectations. Such a game of guessing depleted and destroys relationships. You know such a joke: the wife is offended that the husband does not give flowers, but does not ask about it right. He must guess himself! And if he does not read thoughts, he does not like. No person will never live up to fairy -tale expectations. Our sincere photo: the personal archive of the family of Nikolai Babkin-our interview will be released on the eve of the day of family, love and fidelity.
What is the difference between this holiday from Valentine's Day? It is not a sin to give a loved one a gift, of course, but even the Catholics disowned Valentine's day. First of all, saints are our older brothers and sisters, especially close to God for their virtuous life. The most famous example of the Holy couple is Peter and Fevronia, who abandoned the estate privileges for the sake of love for each other.
Each of us wants genuine feelings, and not play the eternal scene of a happy family, hiding in the heart of resentment and disappointment. But who will change this, if not ourselves?